New
Hope CE Notes, June 30 2001
Dr.
Bill Gaultiere
Director
of New Hope & Psychologist with ChristianSoulCare.com
(714)
971-4213, DrBill@CrystalCathedral.org
If you're
taking this class by CE Notes or tape then complete this exam
and turn it into Sheila on T-5 or at SheilaS@CrystalCathedal.org
in order to receive credit.
| 1. |
Mother's
Day should be a happy day for everyone.
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F |
| 2. |
People
often relate to themselves like their mothers did. |
T |
F |
| 3. |
The
most important way for mothers to care for their young
children is to be nurturing. |
T |
F |
| 4. |
The
Bible teaches that God is a Father who is not "mother-like." |
T |
F |
| 5. |
Honoring
a parent benefits the parent, but not the child. |
T |
F |
| 6. |
Dr.
Bill says that the key to parenting is responding well
to second chances. |
T |
F |
- Forgiveness
is God's way to help us to integrate the realities of _______
and ________.
- How
does Dr. Bill explain the meaning of honoring your parents?
(He suggested three important aspects.)
- ___________________________________________
- ___________________________________________
- ___________________________________________
9. Match
the categories of people with their description.
Women
who don't get flowers
Caring
for sick child
Mothers
who don't get flowers at church
Feel they've failed
Mothers
embarrassed to get flowers
Unresolved childhood
Mothers
who don't get flowers from kids
Infertil
People
who don't send Mom flowers
Not honoring Mom
10.
Respond to each of the following caller/chatter comments.
Offer a reflecting feelings response that puts words
to what the person is feeling. Then offer a collaborating on an action step
response that you'd use later in the conversation to
help engage the person's problem solving abilities.
46-year
old woman who never had children
"I'm
never going to church on Mother's Day again! I cried from when I walked in the door until
I left. First, the greeter
said, `Happy Mother's Day!' and gave me a flower and I had to
tell her that I'm not a mother.
Then they had all the mothers stand up for special prayers.
And the sermon was all about how special mothers are.
How is that supposed to make me feel?"
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
__________________________________________________________
31-year
old mother with 3 children ages newborn to 4
"How
am I supposed to celebrate Mother's Day? I'm nursing my baby and my other two children
are sick! I missed the
church service this morning.
Now it's time for dinner and everybody's hungry."
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
__________________________________________________________
49-year
old mother with two adult children
"Just
what I needed. Someone
else telling me what I should've done for my kids. I know I wasn't a very good mother. I just wish I didn't have to be reminded of
it again on Mother's Day. It's
too late for me to do anything about it now."
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
__________________________________________________________
62-year
old mother
"My
son didn't even call me today. I know he's busy, but you'd think he could find time on Mother's
Day. And my daughter
just talked about all her problems and then said she needed
to go."
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
__________________________________________________________
16-year
old girl in the chat room from England
"my
mum hates me. my stepdad
sexually asulted me a few years ago.
and i told my mum but she did'nt believe me."
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
__________________________________________________________
54-year
old woman
"I'm
thinking about my mother. When I was 4 we were in a car accident and she pushed me out of
harm's way, but she died. It's
been 50 years and people say I should just get over it, but
whenever there's a special occasion I wish she were here with
me."
Reflect
feelings: ____________________________________________
__________________________________________________________
Collaborate
on action step: ____________________________________
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