November,
2002
Dr.
Bill Gaultiere
Director of New Hope & Psychologist with ChristianSoulCare.com
(714) 971-4213,
DrBill@CrystalCathedral.org
If you're taking this class by CE Notes or
tape then complete this exam and turn it into Sheila on T-5
or at SheilaS@CrystalCathedal.org
in order to receive credit.
| 1. |
Christmas
is the hardest time of the year for some people. |
T |
F |
| 2. |
Relationships
are what make the holidays meaningful. |
T |
F |
| 3. |
Squanto
is a kind of Indian corn that the pilgrims used. |
T |
F |
| 4. |
Christmas
is about giving presents. |
T |
F |
| 5. |
Dr.
Bill says that two words usher you into God's presence:
_______ _______." |
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6. |
The
little girl who helped perform the song, "Christmas Love"
held a letter upside down unintentionally shared the true
meaning of Christmas to be: "_____________________________."
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| 7. |
Dr.
Bill says that "Jesus liked to party!" |
T |
F |
| 8. |
1
Thessaloninas 5:16-18 teaches us to practice the presence
of God. |
T |
F |
A New
Hope caller opens her conversation by saying: "I don't want
to be with my family at Thanksgiving, but I don't want to
be alone either. My mother is too difficult for me. What
should I do?"
Consider
each of the following counselor responses below and to what
extent they are helpful or hindering to the caller. Rate
each response by placing a mark on the line.
Early
Responses
9.
"But it's Thanksgiving. That's a time for families."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
10. "It'd be good for you to talk to
your mom about this."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
11. "What's stressful for you about
being with your mother?"
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
12. "I'm sorry the holidays are so hard
for you."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
13. "You feel torn between two unpleasant
options."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
14. "It seems it's difficult for you
to be with your mother."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
15. "What would it be like for you if
you did visit with your family?"
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
Later
Responses
16. "Have you ever had a pleasant holiday
with your family? If so, what made it go well?"
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
17. "Why is your mother so difficult?"
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
18. "Maybe you could celebrate Thanksgiving
with a friend."
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful
19. "What does God want you to do?"
Hindering
__________________________________________ Helpful