Developing
Attachments & Appreciativeness
March 2002
Dr.
Bill Gaultiere
(714)
971-4213
drbill@crystalcathedral.org
If you're
taking this class by CE Notes or tape then complete this exam
and turn it into Sheila on T-5 or at SheilaS@CrystalCathedal.org
in order to receive credit.
| 1. |
The
deepest, most severe type of loneliness is "social isolation." |
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| 2. |
"Intrapersonal
loneliness" refers to feeling bad when you're alone |
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| 3. |
Studies show that lonely people are more likely
to develop serious illnesses or to die prematurely. |
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| 4. |
The
most important thing that New Hope Counelors can do for
lonlely callers is to encourage them to find a support group.
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5.
The "Cycle of Loneliness" begins with ____________________________
6.
Name the two types of reactions to the painful effects
of loneliness that lead to a recycling of the loneliness into
more pain:
____________________________and____________________________
7.
Name three of the six "Quick Comforts for the Lonely:"
(1) _______________________________________________________
(2)
_______________________________________________________
(3)
_______________________________________________________
8.
Name three of the seven "Steps from Loneliness to Loveliness:"
(1) _______________________________________________________
(2)
_______________________________________________________
(3)
_______________________________________________________
For each
of the following sample lonely callers suggest a "reflect feelings"
response:
9. A
man who lost his wife to cancer calls to say, "I can't get to
sleep. She's been gone for over a year now... it's just so
quiet around here."
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
10.
A divorced man calls just before Christmas and tells
you, "This will be my first Christmas without my family. The
kids will be with my ex-wife at the house. I'm stuck here in
the apartment. I'll see the kids for a couple of hours on Christmas
eve, but it's just not the same."
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
11.
A UCLA student calls in late October and
says, "I don't know if I like it in LA. The people and everything
are so different from Bakersfield where I grew up."
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
12.
A mother of pre-schoolers calls late in the evening
and complains, "I'm ready to pull my hair out. These kids keep
squabbling with each other and badgering me for thing after
thing. I haven't talked to an adult all day!"
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
13.
Briefly, describe a time that you were lonely. What
happened? What did you feel? What helped you?
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
14.
Offer two sample questions you can use to engage a caller
or chatter in "Brainstorming an action step."
(1) _______________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
(2)
_______________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
15. The
things that were most helpful for me about this class were:
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
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